So – here we are – 2009…and it’s everywhere — new year’s resolutions, ways to look better, feel better, reinvent yourself…? I decided to take a different approach. These are my New Year’s Tweaks…not overhauling and becoming a new person…but tweaks to my way of life that are doable for 2009…have a look…and hopefully some of these will ring true for you too.
1) Spend more time doing the things I love: Notice I didn’t say do the things you like to do or should do…I mean those things that you love, that put a smile on your face that lasts until the next day… For me, that’s committing to my own yoga practice, playing with my adorable dog, spending time with friends & loved ones and really engaging with them, and spending time in stillness building my relationship with God. What about you? What do you love? Are you spending enough time enjoy those things?
2) Say no more often without feeling guilty about it: I’m learning this more and more – if I’m going to do what I have a talent, burden and passion for and do it well, it means saying no to perfectly good things (and great people) – that just don’t fit me, my vision. I’m naturally a “pleaser” and this is a tough one…but it’s so important. What should you be saying “No” to, so that you can “Yes” to something that inspires and energizes you?
3) Embrace life right before me and live in today: I’m a planner and a fairly analytical mind, so I often think about the future and the past…with not enough time in the present…That’s my natural inclination…This may seem like an easy one for a yoga teacher…but it can be difficult to embrace what’s right before us. This is our life. It’s happening and unfolding right now. We must choose: we can worry or pine about what it’s not, or we can embrace and trust what it is. Yoga helps us become more aware when we’re not doing that, and can help us move in a better direction.
4) Keep exploring and learning: I remember learning lots of things in school to prepare for tests but thinking I would never use that stuff in real life. Sound familiar? As adults, we have the opportunity to choose the lessons and make them our own. In 2009, I’m looking forward to learning more in my field, exploring new ways to pair yoga with therapeutic practices. Personally, I intend to explore beautiful places, embark on things that scare me (a little), and challenge myself. I intend to have a bit more quiet, still time — turning the exploration inward. What about you? What would you like to explore in 2009?
So…no new resolutions for me…just tweaks on recurring themes. Tweaks seem more attainable, more reasonable…something I’ll likely still be tweaking well into our new year.
Happy 2009!