I was blown away looking through my blog stats (not a very frequent activity for me), when I noticed that my first post on Yoga Before Bed is by a large margin the most read post I’ve written! So, I’m thinking we need more yoga before bed… happy to oblige…
Prep Work: Find a quiet part of your home, surroundings. Dim the lights if you can, and turn off as much of our noise as possible (TV, computer, cell phone). Relaxing music may be ok for you – your preference.
Get Settled: Find a comfortable seated position. If you’re sitting on the floor, you may want to place a small pillow under your hips or sit with your back against a wall for support.
1. Letting Go of the Day: Begin to notice your thoughts – maybe you’re replaying the day’s events, or planning/stressing about tomorrow, maybe you’re noticing you’re still annoyed with your co-worker or disappointed with a child. Whatever it is that comes up, try to step away from it in your mind. Just acknowledge the thought – maybe gently place an imaginary post-it note on it (“worry”, “reliving my Monday”, etc.), and let it go. [I know this is easier said than done - but with practice, it will get easier]. Keep in mind, this is not something you do once, and then your thought-free – it’s a continuous process throughout your relaxation/yoga time.
2. Focused Breathing: Once you’ve let go of the immediate thoughts that come to you, begin to focus on your breathing patterns. Start by just watching how you breathe naturally. Where do you feel your breath? In your belly? Your chest? Both? Is it difficult to breathe? How long are your breaths? Is your inhale longer or shorter than your exhale? These are some good questions to think on to help you to just BE with your breath. Just focusing on our breath can reduce anxiety, calm our nervous system and bring a feeling of relaxation to you… our breath is a very powerful tool – that’s available anytime, anywhere.
3. 2:1 Breathing: So now, we’re going to modify our breathing to encourage relaxation. When our exhale is longer than our inhale, it has a calming effect on the body. Tangent: But first, we want to make sure we’re breathing from our belly/lower ribcage and not the chest. If you’re not sure, lie down on your back and place one hand on your belly and one hand on your upper chest. Breathe in and out through your nose and notice which hand moved first. If the hand on your upper chest moved first, you’re breathing from your chest, which is inefficient and can cause us to feel more stressed/stimulated. Try practicing a belly breath where your belly rises as you inhale and falls as you exhale. Practice this first, and then join us for the 2:1 Breath when you’re ready. Back to the 2:1 Breath: Begin by counting in your mind the length of your inhale and the length of your exhale…just notice what they are. After a few breaths, try to extend the exhale a count or two longer than your inhale. As you practice, you can work up to exhaling twice as long as your inhaling. Continue for 10 breaths or so, and return to your focused breath.
4. Becoming More Aware: You may notice we haven’t even moved yet. Yoga for stress relief, better sleep, etc. is just as much if not more about calming the mind first – getting rid of the junk from our day and then gently moving and stretching. Although, you might find that some nights, you just need the breathing – that’s fine too. So, as you’re breathing, begin to notice where you’re feeling tension and stress in the body. Is it in the neck and shoulders? Maybe the low back? It’s great to focus your nightly stretches on what your body is saying (or screaming) to you vs. same stretches all of the time. We’ll start with a few ideas to get us started…look for future posts for more ideas.
5. Yoga for Neck/Shoulders: Sit tall with your sit bones grounded to the floor. If this is uncomfortable or you feel your back rounding, place a pillow under your hips. Try to stack your ears right over your collar bones, and lengthen the crown of your head toward the ceiling. a) Imagine the back of your head resting against the headrest of your car. Draw your shoulders down and back. Practice your focused breathing. b) After 4-6 breaths, gently let the right ear draw closer to the right shoulder, tilting the head. Breathe here – and with each exhale, allow a deeper, more comfortable stretch. Repeat on the other side. c) Gently roll the shoulders each direction. d) Practice Eagle Arms – bringing your forearms in front of you, fingers toward the ceiling. Cross one elbow over the other and draw the shoulders down. Stay here and breathe or gently lift the arms (still crossed) about 2-4 inches up as you exhale and lowering as you inhale. Continue for 6-8 breaths.
6. Yoga for Hips & Back: Lie on your back on the floor with your feet on the floor. Draw your shoulders down and back and let your arms rest by your side. a) Begin with Pelvic Tilt (see first yoga before bed post) and repeat 8-10 times. b) Draw the knees in toward your chest and gently rock back and forth or make small circles with your legs. Allow the low back to press toward the floor. If you like Happy Baby pose, this would be a good time for it… c) Recline Pigeon: Bring your feet back to the floor, legs bent. Cross your right ankle over your left knee. You can stay here, or lift the left foot off the floor and towards you. Breathe and hold for 8 breaths and then switch sides. For a slightly different stretch, cross the knees instead and draw the legs toward you. d) Recline Twist: Come back to both feet on the floor, legs bent. Float your arms out to shoulder height, and then draw the shoulders down from the ears (they have a habit of going there). On your next exhale, let your knees go to the right side, keeping the upper body towards the floor. Breathe and hold for 8 breaths – letting each breath be long and steady. Gently reverse when you’re ready.
Check back with us – you’ll see more on this topic soon…in the meantime, breathe and enjoy.



